Working on Yourself Doesn't Work

Why Working on Yourself Doesn’t Work with Ariel and Shya Kane

In a world where people are constantly working on themselves or their partners to fix what they see as wrong...

Meet your soul mate

How to meet your soul mate through Deeper Dating with Ken Page

Meeting your soul mate in the treacherous dating scene can seem like a big mountain. The mountain to meet your...

What to do when you feel lonely

I spent many afternoons and evenings thinking that there wasn’t anyone who cared about me and the only way that’d...

Significant Relationships

3 Secrets to Having Significant Relationships

On my 26th birthday last week, I shared my definition of success with everyone in the YSL Insider community. If...

Does size matter?

Does size matter? I’m about to answer a question that sooo many dudes have on their minds and I’m curious...

Radical Acceptance for Gay Men with Tara Brach

Have you ever felt shameful or rejected yourself for being gay? Did you know this can be turned around through...

Healthy Eating Habits with Matt Jager

Healthy eating habits are challenging to come by these days. Everyone has their own belief system on how to be...

Sloppy Seconds Don’t Have to be Your Reality If You Do This

                  Sometimes your perception of reality sucks, especially when you’re getting sloppy...

Positive Thinking Is Not What You Think It Is

Today, I’m talking about the power of positive thinking. If you think this is gonna be some mystical, airy fairy...

gay men shame

How to Heal a Broken Heart for Gay Men

To Sensitive Gay Men Who’ve Ever Been Bullied and Shamed…this one’s for you: I heard that life was tough for...

How to Have Good Gay Feelings and Stay Positive

I have news for you. “Trying to stay positive” is actually not the right answer to generate good feelings when...

Why long term plans and expectations will destroy your happiness

When I was 18, I studied at a top musical theatre program in the United States. I was on track to...